From Disc 1:

What Society Teaches:

This is what society has spelled out for us: it’s bad to attract women. Right, any guy who attracts women is either some international spy or some guy who kills people, or someone who is completely outside of the realm of who we could actually be. You know we can’t become James Bond. These guys are all other worldly characters. And if there not other worldly characters, the real life characters are these guys with terrible jobs, terrible relationships, terrible role models. They’re bad boy’s, right?

So, any guy who’s attractive to women is either completely mysterious or discounted as a negative factor in society. There’s the story of women regretting being with the bad boys and then turning to the providers. Or, this is my favorite story, they take a bad boy and they turn him into a provider. Hans Solo is a great example of that. He’s a total scoundrel, and then he joined the rebellion at the last moment and becomes a really nice guy.

So, there’s all these stories of these bad boys becoming converted. And that by the way is the story of the romance novel. The romance novel is a bad boy who’s completely unattainable, who’s never been conquered by anything. And then all of a sudden he becomes conquered by the heroine, by the female.

And romance novels, by the way are the one guideline media gives us for a real attraction and seduction. And by the way, romance novels sell more than all other books combined. So there are more people right now reading romance novels than all other types of books combined. Amazing.

That’s the story, the romance novel. The story of a bad boy turning into a provider. That is the real female fantasy. We’ll talk about how to use that knowledge…