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Chapter #3:
From
'Cold Approach' to Hot Date' In 6 Easy Steps
Storytelling
It never fails. A student comes to one of our workshops
and finds that we expect him to be able to tell an entertaining
story from his own life, and stares at us in disbelief,
explaining “but I don’t have any good stories
to tell?” He may own his own business, have traveled
the world, and moved here from India not knowing anyone
at the age of 17, but thinks somehow he has nothing to say.
Then Grant starts in with his revolving door story, explaining
right from the start that he doesn’t even like the
damn story (it’s not really all that good). But the
key is, he loves telling it because it always gets reactions,
and it always gets women listening to him. The guys start
to get it. They start to understand.
You are the best material. Your story is just a way to
draw attention to the real show. Sean’s Storytelling
Generator will show you how to get started.
Your dream girl is there in front of you. Waiting. Anticipating
your approach. Sending you signals all night. But she’s
surrounded by friends, all in a circle around her, guarding
her like mother hens. How do you approach this big group
and charm them all into liking you?
Easy. Tell them a story.
Why tell stories?
People love stories. Across cultures, across ages, across
groups, everyone loves a story. If you approach a group
with a story to tell, you have them interested. And if you
have them interested, you have the opportunity to get the
women attracted.
But how do you tell a story to a group? How do you tell
a story that engages the emotions, and the attraction mechanisms,
of women? How do you tell the story of your life in a way
that makes you attractive?
Your story should have a quick hook question with an unusual
(meaning not “where are you ladies headed tonight?”)
topic, that will either engage opinions or get their attention.
Helpful if you are probing for yes/no or one word answers.
You want them to jump in right away with emotional reactions,
not logic.
After the hook, let them reply. Banter back with energy
and enthusiasm to whatever they say. You want them engaged
now.
Now jump into your story. This story should be as short
as you can possibly make it, fast, emotional, and end with
a pause and clear punch line. Then go right to banter with
no segue at all. Segues are for suckers. Orangutan.
The Instant Story Generator
We’ve even created our very own MadLibs-style story
generator to get you started. Stories are always best if
you use material from your own life, and everyone has great
stories. You just need to know the structure...
[Continued in our Bonus Report: From 'Cold Approach' To
'Hot Date' In 6 Easy Steps]]
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