Working the room… each and every time.
I'd hate to be the guy who was good with women and nothing else.
It'd be boring and of course, slightly creepy.
I mean, don't we have better things to do than just chase women, bed them and collect as many notches on our bedpost as possible?
Yes, there's more to us.
We have passions, emotions, likes and dislikes, fears and insecurities.
It's what makes us human beings and not pickup androids.
Generating attraction women comes from being a more attractive men, and the growth process is one that evolves around us, each step of the way.
Whether we're working on getting the initial approach or dealing with more advanced issues in some of our relationships, we're learning how to lean into our edge more and open up to new experiences.
And best of all, it can start in our backyards, in the streets and cafes we walk through everyday.
We can start by putting more of ourselves out there, by engaging the people around us.
How much effort would it take to greet strangers, flirt with the check-out clerks and chat up people in line?
Probably not a whole lot, yet most people would rather zone out, plug into an ipod or get busy on their cellphones.
We can ignore life as it passes around us, or we can engage it.
We can take the lead by interacting with our surroundings rather than watching it pass us by, like scenery flying by our windows on a roadtrip.
Working the room doesn't just mean doing it at bars or cocktail parties, it means doing it everywhere you go.
Yes, everywhere.
Bookstores, cafes, supermarkets, department stores, walking down the sidewalk, banks, restaurants, and just about every other ordinary place we frequent everyday.
Come from a place of curiosity and ask questions - ask what's good, ask what someone's reading, ask for recommendations for items on the menu.
The point is to take up more space, get used to engaging in a conversation and fine-tuning our conversation skills.
And if you've met any influential people such as politicians, celebrities, etc., they take up the room.
Their energy is contagious, and they simply glow.
And we don't need to glow to flirt our way through the day and get the women we want into our lives, because the hotties are out there… everywhere.
That's why there's no sense in being ready or having the right line, at the right time.
The perfect thing sleeps with the Easter Bunny, Nessy and magical Unicorns - they all don't exist.
There's only good timing, confidence, and seeing the lightness in each moment.
Hot women come and go, just like the bus. Miss one? Wait for the next.
And if you're in New York, they're everywhere in site - there is no waiting.
By talking to everyone, not just hot women, you're being the cool guy that's confident enough to take the risk of starting conversation.
It may take effort at first, but it also make us accountable. We're talking to people we don't know all the time.
And when the next hot girl pops up, your body and mind will fall back on training and start talking to her without thinking.Yes finally, flirting with hot women without thinking.
Without the BS of what to say, how to be and what to do.Freedom of being frozen by fear and digging into our heads about what we did wrong.And it doesn't matter if we're not even funny - the point is to start conversations you normally wouldn't have.
It's about being a social person, practicing the skill every hour that you're out, each and every day.
Doing it until it's who we've become, without force and effort.
Walter
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