Guys I talk to are always shocked when I try to explain to them that the girls they want to talk to are WAY more nervous and insecure than they could ever imagine.
We assume that just because she’s pretty, she’s got all the confidence in the world. Everything goes well for her. Look, guys buy her drinks! They talk to her! They watch her as she walks by!
What we sometimes have trouble remembering is that beautiful women are like elite athletes: they start out with special advantages, but then spend their entire lives trying desperately to hold on to their peak, knowing that every day that goes by, they get a little worse for wear, a little less admired, and a little more sad for what they once were.
A beautiful girl is always in the sunset of her youth. A man is always born again to a new day. You know that as long as you take action, every day you can be more attractive than you ever were before. You are lucky.
Thank whatever you want you were born a man, because you don’t want to know how it feels to look back at your long-lost prime at 25. Just ask Gisele.
“Brazilian supermodel Gisele Bundchen is mourning for her youth, insisting men are no longer interested in her because she is over 25.
The former love of Leonardo DiCaprio fears she may have lost the nubile charms she had as a teenager, because flirtations feel like a thing of the past.
She says, “I definitely feel that I had more men hitting on me in the past. When I was younger, maybe 15 or 16, for sure.
“Maybe I am not as good-looking? I don’t know. Maybe my age has started showing? I take off my sunglasses and I’m 25.”
Wow. This is a great way to re-frame all the insecurities we have when approaching a beautiful woman. But now that you mention it, it makes sense. My aunt told me something once to the effect of “Women get old, Men just mature.” Old men can become the ‘sophisticated older gentleman’ and still be a ladies man. Old women….not so much. Thanks for posting this Sean, I’m sure this will help a lot of guys with their inner game.
Thank You, this is exactly what i need to read
i Really appreciate it
This is one of the funniest things that I have ever read! Several years ago, when I was a undergrad student at USF I met a young lady who was about to turn 20 years old. She told me that she had just won the Miss Polk County beauty contest and was going on to compete in the Miss Florida contest. I believed her because she was hot! Now, here is the weird part. She was almost in tears because she was about to turn 20. She thought that she would be old at 20 because then she would no longer be a teenager! I had all that I could do to keep from laughing at her! I was over 30 at the time and married. THAT felt old at the time, but turning 20 never did! Now I am a 48 year old grandfather and THAT feels old!
Beauty fades. We’re lucky to be men.
The line about action is THE BOMB
I dont care how old you are as a man, if you have thr right frame and take action you can be the MACK DADDY
The evidence is out there if you look
And if you dont take action…. well, let’s not talk about that
The evidence of this is EVERYWHERE
Yeah, but what about girls who are 20-24?
ALL people have insecurities and yes this includes hot women.. They are just people guys!
heres the question though.. if a hot woman starts telling you these things about her insecruties do you
A. Become Cocky and Start making funny comments about her
B. Become sensitive and nurture her telling her that shes wrong
C. say nothing
ALWAYS, everytime she tries to make you a therapist, some version of:
“You’re a smart girl, you’ll figure it out… Do you like lobster?”
She can handle it, followed by topic change.
d
PS. this is pre-sex, or pre-LTR. If she is your woman, you give what you give.
@MiltonBradley
I think I would go for D. Act a bit surprised. Say things like “hmm thats really interesting, never thought of it that way, but I guess you are right” etc. Make a conversation about it.
If a woman tells something like that to you, she is already comfortable around you and hopefully attracted, not just a friend.
Not A. -> you’d seem like an a** hole, she just told you something private and confidential.
Not B. -> you’d seem needy and supplicating yourself.
Comments on that approach?
>Yeah, but what about girls who are 20-24?
Even MORE insecure, because they know they are just getting by on their looks.
Read that quote again. Giselle is looking back and realizing she peaked at 15.
15!
15-year-olds have absolutely no power and no real authority over their lives. Imagine if that were you, and you knew that every day thereafter you were just battling to hold on to that peak.
A hot 22-year old who seems to have an attitude is just waving a giant red flag at you that says, “I wish to god someone could see me for more than my looks… i wish someone had the courage and the insight to see what’s special in me without me having to tell him.”
That’s the real game, the real challenge. There’s something inside that makes women sexy. The trick is to find it without asking her to tell you.
Hey sean, thanks man, it really makes sense. I mean most women I see seem to be so caught up and concerned with how they look. Also, this would explain the phenomenon of anerexic women and the fact that there are more attempted suicides for females than males. That’s great information, hope to hear some more encouraging stuff from you.
Thanks
Garett Hunter
Hi guys,
I’d like to say, that this is a really good article. But I’d like to know, if this every woman feels, when she reaches this age? Or does this happen only HB 9-10 – models etc? Because here in Slovenia (Europe – if anyone knows where this country is) are 2 million people and there is not a lot of well known models, the ones who are, are already taken. So tell me, if you think that this is possible everywhere. Tnx
Tadej, 18