Hey man,
This is Sean Newman, Head Coach at PickUp 101. You probably heard my David D. Interview with Dating Gurus. You probably heard me on Surefire Attraction Secrets as the special Banter expert. You may have even seen my blog at http://makegirlssmile.com.
But what you may not have heard is this: me and my boys on the East Coast are the REAL Dream Team.
Yeah, I said it. It had to be said. And Lance won’t like it, but the TRUTH needs to come out.
See, a few months ago, me and my A-Team pulled up stakes in San Francisco and headed to New York. We got ourselves a sweet pad, the kind of place guys dream of when they are reaching for that Playboy magazine under the bed and wondering what life will be like when they get grown.
Our New York apartment is so sweet it’s used for $1500 per person parties featuring body-painted Swedish massueses. I’m talking PIMP.
But the problem is, we’ve been so busy running workshops, we haven’t even moved in yet.
Me, Joe Brody, Dan Magano, and Ben Parsons joined our New York brothers here and got the plans to rock this city, but there’s been so much business we haven’t even had a night on the town together.
Hell, I’ve got 6 or 7 different girls in New York alone wondering when I’ll be in town.
And that doesn’t even count my girls in DC and Miami!
What you might not know is that for the last year, we’ve been the ones kicking ass in workshops in San Francisco. Not Lance. He’s been so busy building the business that he handed over the reins to us and the other guys and let us at it.
And the workshops now, especially Art of Rapport and Daygame, are the best in the business BY FAR.
Don’t tell him, but they’re better even than the workshops Lance taught.
And that’s why I’m talking to you today. See, I didn’t drive across the country and work 5 weekends in a row to hear someone tell me how they can’t wait to take a workshop in San Francisco because that’s the place to be.
I love Cali, but come on. Let’s be real. We bring the best to the East because that’s where the hottest girls are. And you need the best game in the world to get their attention.
It’s so good out here I’ve got my boys back in SF asking when they can come out and join us here. They know that we’re doing things that Californians can only dream of. I mean, just listen to what our students here say about the Art of Attraction and Art of Rapport.
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"AoA was amazing.
I’ve been working on incorperating what I’ve learned into everyday life. The body language work has given me real, fast, tangible results already.
Just being present, and in my own space, confidant and alpha, women have already started looking at me differently, giving me that look I always wanted, but never knew how to get. My body language IS my opener.
It happened in Starbucks.
It happened at work.
It happened at the gym.
I haven’t been anywhere else since AoA, but I think this will probably KEEP happening. I have been generating attraction with ease. It’s there before I even open my mouth.
Incredible. Unfathomable. Real.
I have never looked forward to the weekend as much as I am right now."
- Matt, from Art of Attraction New York 1/26/07
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"AoR This weekend was nothing short of amazing because it completely opened me up to a new world of
possibilities. Before the workshop the hot girl walking down the street, at the coffee shop, at
the mall, at the bookstore might as well have not existed in the same universe because I could not
even fathom the idea of approaching them in the daytime. Going through this weekend the 2 ideas
that really hit home for me were:
1. The only things that were holding me back before was all the societal norms b.s. I have
internalized (that people just dont do this type of stuff), and approach anxiety.
2. Not only are girls ok with daytime approachs, girls like being approached by guys who make them
smile and don’t creep them out.
Walking out of class that Saturday was like stepping into completely new reality. Suddenly all the
cute girls DO exist in my universe, because I can ACTUALLY TALK to them, even if its just asking
for directions. After doing about something like 50 approaches that day, it is obvious that I CAN
interact with anyone I wanted to. EVERY girl is approachable. Even the girl on the ipod that
walked past me 30 seconds ago and is now across the street is approachable – I just gotta chase
her down. The only obstacles are my weak-ass hesitation-causing excuses and, oh, moving vehicles
and subway turnstiles.
AOR breaks down the daytime approach to a science (or art, whichever you prefer). First, you learn
how to approach while making the girl comfortable, and then what to say to make them smile and
open up to you. Almost all of the girls we approached during the weekend were very receptive. Plus
just knowing that I have the power to go up and make a woman smile, anywhere, is very powerful.
The instructors and supergirls were great in laying down the techniques, such as the physical and
psychological space in an approach and how to engage in rapport. Going through this process of
doing drills and having mistakes pointed out is certainly more efficient (and much less painful)
than doing it on your own and trying to figure things out through trial and error.
This was an amazing weekend, and I want to thank the all the instructors for their guidance and
all the students for sharing this experience with me."
- James, from Art of Rapport New York, 2/2/07
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“Oh my god….That girl is so hot, I have to talk to her. Holy f*ck Ryan don’t do it, it might kill you!!!”, It was the Saturday night of my AOA workshop and that was the inner mind battle that I’d been dealing with all weekend, actually f*ck that…it’s a battle I’ve been dealing with ever since I was about 8 years old and started to like girls. The only difference being all this weekend I was saying fuck you to my inner voice and APPROACHING THE GIRL ANYWAY. As I’m walking up to her I almost threw up, my heart skipped a beat, and I could already feel the sweat. I go right up next to her with some good ass body language (lol), touch her arm very lightly with the back of my hand and say
Me: Oh my god….its soooo good to see you again
Her: (confused look) how do I know you?
Me: (stunned look) you don’t remember me?
Her: No
Me: (smiling)
Camp
Alamuchy, summer of ’91, we totally made out in the arts and craft tent
Her: We did? I don’t remember that
Me: Ya, you had on the U2 shirt I had on the Brian Adams. You came up to me and starting signing, everything I do, I do it for you
Her: (laughing and smiling!) are you sure I don’t remember that
Me: And you had braces and they cut my lip when we kissed and I was bleeding everywhere. You got grossed out and ran and got nurse jamie
Her: (laughing and smiling) Are you sure that was me? Maybe it was my long lost twin!
Me: (smiling) Ok you got me! Im just fucking with you. You’re cute, so I figured I would come up to you and say some random fun shit to see if youre fun as well. Cause just cute isn’t good enough for me. Im glad you’re laughing cause it shows you’re both fun and cute. Im Ryan btw.
Her: Im Alex
From there we just vibe. Shes really cool and really gets how to banter. I start doing all this crazy illogical shit that makes ZERO SENSE to about 98% of all men. I’d give her gold stars for good behavior, suspend her from school for bad behavior, tell her we’re getting married in vegas than break up with her and tell her she needs to give me back all my cds including the Brittany spears one, tell her we’re gonna make out in a teepee, tell her shes a dork and trouble, and when she asks my opinion on somone in the bar I say they probably work as an underwater squid farmer for a living (credit Niels).
At some point when things are obviously progressing well, my coach Eric (awesome cool genuine guy) comes up and whispers in my ear “Kino escalation just called. Shes gonna be here in 10 mintues”. At that point I had been doing kino, but defiantely not escalating it. (big propos to Eric for pointing this out to me) So I start escalating kino by tickling her and holding her hand for prolonged periods. At one point we start face bantering. I lean my head one way and make a weird face, she does the same. We do this a couple times. Then I lean in and she leans in and we start making out right there.
I’m the type of guy who loves kissing, so if someone’s a good kisser I could literally kiss all night. We kiss passionately right on our bar stools for who the hell knows how long. All I know is it was totally hot! At some point I overhear some girls at the table next to us say ‘Omg, they are so obnoxious.’ I stop kissing look at them (one is hot) and go “omg….you guys are so jealous… that’s so cute.” I don’t even wait for a response and turn and continue to make out."
- Ryan, from Art of Attraction New York 1/26/07
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I hate to be the one to do it, but the feud is back on. East vs. West. Celtics vs. Lakers. Biggie vs. Tupac.
And this time,
YOU win no matter what. The REAL Dream Team is gonna be together for just TWO more workshops here in New York, and if you miss your chance to learn how to banter, attract, and connect with the best in the business, you’ll regret it the next time you see one of us roll into the club and take your girl right off your arm.
Yeah, I’m looking at you, SF. We got the best coaches. The hottest girls. STUNNING Supergirls for you to practice with and learn what women REALLY want.
And once April hits, the very best students EVER.
I know SF wants to doubt me. I know I’ll hear it from them. But I know what we got here.
There’s a war on. All of us at PickUp 101 are gonna get the battle on to see who really has the best in show. You wanna know?
This is your chance.
April 6. Art of Attraction. Attract girls in the bars and the streets of New York.
http://pickup101.com/members/AoA
April 13. Art of Rapport and Daygame. Find the girls of your dreams in the daytime.
http://pickup101.com/members/daygame
Once these two workshops are done, it’s back to basics. We’ve been kicking ass for 2 straight months, and once we do this, it’s time to relax a while in our sweet penthouse with our sweeter girls.
You miss this, and you’ll be missing out on a LOT for years to come.
Like I said, I didn’t drive all the way out here and bust my ass putting on the best pickup workshops in HISTORY just so you could wait to take a vacation in hippy-dippy San Francisco. You want the real skills? Put yourself to the test.
New York City. April. Spring will be here and the hotties will be ready to roll.
Will you?
With all the love in my heart from the coach you’ve been waiting for your whole life,
Sean 
P.S. Are you going to be kissing any hotties on April 6? Guys are Art of Attraction will be.
Be one of them.
http://pickup101.com/members/AoA
P.P.S. Bars aren’t your thing. You want to meet her anywhere, any day. Store, street… how about subway?
Stop wishing for it and DO IT. Art of Rapport and Daygame.
http://pickup101.com/members/daygame
