Shut up (And get the girl)

Did you know that a woman knows what chance you have with
her before you ever open your mouth to talk to her?

Tis' true, though it may be hard to believe.

The truth is women can generally see you coming from a mile
away, and they 'size you up' instantly.

If you have trouble believing that, go to a bar, find an
attractive group of women, and sit back and watch OTHER men
approach women.

Pay close attention to the womens reactions as they notice
the men coming in for the appraoch.

Is it good, or is it bad?

(By the way, there IS a hint there, because the reaction is
ALWAYS good or bad - it's almost NEVER indifferent)

Ouch… talk about a harsh situation.

The women act as the judge, jury, and executioner, and you
haven't even gotten a chance to SAY anything yet!

Doesn't really seem fair, does it?

After all, how much can they really tell about you without
talking to you?

The truth is they there may be a lot that they can't tell
about you, but the ONE thing they REALLY care about is
written all over your face.

And that one thing is confidence.

Not only can women spot it from accross the room, they have
this uncanny sixth sense about it.

They can practically smell it, and when one of them senses
it, she unconsiously and IMMEDIATLY comunicates it to all of
the other women.

I sometimes call this 'girl code' and I demonstrate how this
works in my Physcial Confidence program.

(You can learn more about this at
http://www.PickUp101.com/PhysicalConfidence )

By the way, I should mention that this mechanism women have
for detecting confidence also works for detecting a LACK of
confidence.

It works both ways, and this makes sense if you think about
it.

Women want to detect a confident guy, because they are HOT
for him.

On the other hand, women want to detect a guy who LACKS
confidence, because he has the potential to be creepy if he
hits on them, or even to turn into a stalker if he somehow
get's her number of finds out where she lives or works.

(This may sound harsh, but virtually ALL attractive women
have had a stalker at some point in there lives, and they
are almost ALWAYS guys who lack confidence with women)

So…

When they see a new guy they instatnly and unconciously
sense his confidence, OR his LACK of confidence.

Like I said, this happens BEFORE they meet you or get a
chance to talk to you.

It's lot like how us guys instantly and unconsiously put
women into the 'Hot' or 'Not' category when we first meet
them.

And just like with our own hot or not assesment, I'm sorry
to say there is NO 'middle ground' rating here.

From one moment to the next you either HAVE physical
confidence, or you don't.

The good news is that when you can radiate confidence, you
stand out to women and can actually become an object of
THEIR desire.

Let me give you an example.

Let me tell you about The Kid.

I saw 'the kid' when I wa at the gym a few years ago.

Now, when I go to the gym, I'm all about efficiency and
multi-tasking. I mean, why just go workout my body when I
can workout my banter and flirting and rapport too, and get
some great dates in the process?

I have to say, it's rare for me to see anyone else "multi-
tasking" too.

But then I saw The Kid.

He was maybe 19 or 20 - an OK-looking kid.

Kinda.

skinny, a little on the short side.

He was wearing some baggy shorts, a green t-shirt, and a
beat-up baseball cap.

Nothing special about how he looked, or what he was wearing.

Except for one thing: he was wearing the slyest-sh*t-eating
grin on his face.

While everyone else in the gym was busy sweating and
grunting this kid wasjust relaxing,leaning against the wall
next to the water fountain while a cute, cute, cute blonde
in a sports bra and yoga pants kept leaning in, touching his
arm, and then leaning back to laugh and play with her hair.

She couldn't stop talking to him, and I swear, he didn't say
a SINGLE WORD.

The whole time, The Kid just leaned back, shot her that
grin, and occassionally shrugged his shoulders and arched
his eyebrows.

It was as if his body was saying to her "I know you want me,
and I kinda like watching you work for it. Keep it up, and
maybe you've got a shot with me, cutie."

He wasn't talking, but he was telling her everything that
she needed to know about him.

You hear about some people having the gift of stillness, or
some physical grace. It's the kind of thing you can see in
athletes, or dancers, or actors.

They are usually the ones who can stay calm and confident
under pressure.

I know the idea of talking to this cutie in broad daylight
is the kind of pressure that some guys want no part of. I
even remember long ago before I learned the real secrets of
attraction how nervous I would have been.

But The Kid didn't flinch. It was like watching a great
poker player bid up the pot and never show a single sign of
nerves.

The truth is you can have all the clever lines and craft
your words perfectly.

You can dress the part and go to the hippest places with the
hippest people. But no matter what you do, the girl is
always going to be watching you like a hawk to see if you
show any sign of nerves.

She is not going to listen to your words. She IS going to
listen to your body.

How are you standing? Do you shift from foot to foot?

Are you smiling? Do you look relaxed?

What about your arms and hands? Do you know what to do with
them, or are they shaking, or just flailing about when you
talk?

The Kid had his moves together. He knew that sometimes it's
what you don't do that really matters. He wasn't just acting
cool. He was feeling it, showing it, and making it easy for
her to see what kind of guy he really was.

And I just know that he learned all of this from someone
else who really knew what he was doing.

No one is just born confident and charming and knowing just
how to use his body to get girls to notice.

We all learn all the time from the people around us. We
model the people we see.

Unfortunatly, if your childhood was anything like mine, you
spent your forative years surrounded by guys who were
deceidely NOT confident.

If so, then you have to train yourself to be confident.

It sounds hard, or maybe even impossible, but the truth is
confidence is a PHYSICAL trait, and like any physical skill,
it CAN be learned.

See, I didn't always look cool and confident.

I learned from the best, the real naturals, just how to
stand, walk, talk, and use my body to communicate with women
on the intimate, physical level that they really understand.

It's not a secret anymore, and it's not something you have
to be born with. You can learn this, just like The Kid did.

Now you can spend 10 years like I did trying to unlock the
secrets, or you can save a lot of time and a whole lot of
frustration, and learn it all at once with my new Physical
Confidence Take-Home Training Program. It's all up to you…
do you want it?

If so, then move with confidence to:

http://www.PickUp101.com/PhysicalConfidence

Go make some girls smile!

Lance Mason

P.S. In case you were wondering if all this stuff about
physical confidence is really that important, listen to what
a woman has to say about it.

"If you can't read what I'm telling you with my body, then
we can't really talk about anything. Women don't really ever
say what they mean, they say it with their bodies." - Shiva,
PickUp 101 SuperGirl

Learn the language today:

http://www.PickUp101.com/PhysicalConfidence

P.P.S. If you want some hands on training on your physical
confidence, then you'll want to check out our live training
programs where we can work with you one-on-one on the issues
that are holding YOU back with women.

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