She beat the crap out of him
From the New York Post: "Hoops superstar Jason Kidd yesterday slapped his knockout wife with shocking divorce papers - claiming he's an abused spouse.
The New Jersey Nets' All-Star point guard - once busted for allegedly hitting his sexy bride, Joumana, in the face over a french fry - charges in the explosive court document that she has been punching, kicking and throwing 'household objects' at him virtually since their wedding day in 1997."
You want to know what happens when a man doesn't understand how attraction really works?
What happens when the physical urges of attraction get knocked haywire, and a woman gets more and more unhappy with the man she thought could really get her?
This is the story of one of the best basketball players in the world, and the wife who physically abused him.
Jason Kidd has been famous since he was 15 and a legend on the playgrounds in Oakland. He fell for a model named Joumana, and pursued her endlessly, calling her, writing her poems, and not giving up until she agreed to go out with him
When Jason made it to the pros, Joumana was famous for doing whatever it took to get noticed on TV on the sidelines of games.
Jason was famous for blowing kisses to her before shooting free throws.
And their marriage seemed to everyone to be a perfect match of famous, rich, popular athlete and gorgeous girl.
But what it looked like under the hood was a different story. The engine was running on the power of the hottie beating the crap out of the 6"5", 210 lb. pro athlete.
You ever thought to yourself, if only for a second, if only I could be famous, rich, and popular, then I too could get the gorgeous girl?
Famous, rich, and popular may get you something.
But it won't get you the girl.
Look dude, I'm not rich, famous or popular. Not like this guy. But I've got women in my life who are totally happy with me, and I'm thrilled as a puppy with a meatball milkshake with them.
I wasn't always the Lance-Man. I wasn't a cool kid. I was a nerd, a dork, a grind. I studied. I didn't play sports and I didn't get the girl.
But then I spent 10 years learning by dating thousands of girls to figure out how it REALLY works for all people. And I know when things are right, and when things are really pretty far from all right.
I don't know either of these people. I don't know what the hell happened to make things go so bad.
But I know too many stories like this tragic one to miss the signs that these two never really understood each other.
Most tragically, in cases like this, you find the man just doesn't understand the woman.
He thinks he knows what it takes to get her attention and keep it. He'll do whatever it takes to make her happy.
Buy her any gift, promise her any promise, and even sacrifice his own dreams, and what he really wants, in order find some way to give her what she says she wants.
And the whole time he never gets that what she really wants is for him to understand her, lead her, and keep her happy with him.
I know some of y'all have tried this. Some of you may just be trying it now. I did. I gave my first girlfriend every gift I could think of.
You know those stupid stuffed animals at the carnival? I bribed the carny to win them. And I'll tell you, you don't get much mo' pathetic in life than bribing a carny.
But that was literally thousands of dates ago. And what I've learned over those thousands is real, real simple.
Everything you've been taught about women is all screwed up. And I mean everything. It's not your fault. School, parents, church, friends.
TV. Movies. Songs.
Sweet baby Jeebus, love songs are the worst.
I was really serious about songwriting and guitar for years, and one thing you get ultra quick writing songs is you can't go broke writing poor-pity breakup tunes where the lovesick dopey dude will do whatever it takes to get, or get back, his girl.
And all that crap, that I'll do anything, I'll sacrifice myself, or I'll give you whatever you want, honey-bunny, just to have a chance, well, I'm not saying it's going to get you bruised, beaten and broke.
But it did for Jason Kidd.
What do you want for yourself?
How about learning what women really want?
You can choose a better life NOW.
Your friend,
Lance Mason
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