PickUp 101

Seduction with women you will be seeing on a regular basis

Excellent topic, and one I've been thinking on lately, especially since I make the gym one of my preferred hunting grounds, and it's only very recently that I've gotten comfortable with managing flirtation and sexual relationships with multiple women I see out and about repeatedly. Here's what I've been doing lately, that really seems to make it work for me.

Any time you spend with her in the shared social setting should be as sexually charged as you can make it. Be overt. Don't presume that because you are talking she knows you are interested… make it clear. Tell her you really like her lips, and that if you kissed her it would be an amazing kiss. Then change the subject to how your shoes make you look like an elf. Keep dropping SOIs on her in a fun, flirty, sexy way so she never has the opportunity to see you as just a friend.

One thing I'm going to start using more is a technique I read long ago posted by an old master named Zan… the girlfriend tech. It's ridiculously simple, and sets a perfect frame of sexual interest for you and any woman right from the start. Works something like this.

You: Hey chica, what's up.

Chica: blah blah blah.

You: blah blah blah

Chica: blah? blah blah… blah blah!

You: Y'know what? (big smile, arm on waist or lightly around her
shoulder) I think I'm gonna make you my new girlfriend.

Her response (positive, negative, none-at-all) is almost irrelevant. You are stating your interest and making it clear that it doesn't really matter what she thinks. And she will be blown away the fact that you can say something that no other guy has EVER said to her,
and that joking or not, she really does dream about.

I haven't tested this nearly enough yet, but the few times I have, it immediately sends a charge through the conversation. A lot of the SOI stuff is based on what I read from Juggler, and from conversations with hot female friends (but not FBs). They all agree
that a man who can state intent in a classy, sexy way, just blows them away… even if they are not yet attracted.

Read that part again slowly. Women have told me that a guy who states intent in a sexy way (like 'you smell amazing. I could just nuzzle in your hair and kiss your neck for hours'), especially early on, gets their attention immediately, and turns them on, even if they had not yet been attracted to him before. Women would all rather you tried earlier rather than later. Don't play it cool.

Don't move slow. Show her your interest… she wants to know that you want her… so tell her… but then let her earn it a little before you give it to her.

If you want a woman to be your friend, be e a friend. If you want her to be your lover, be a lover.

- Sean