Q: I understood that going in ‘direct’ means that you have the frame, “I am enough” or “I am more than enough”, is that correct?
A: No.
Gaming girls means that you have the frame “I am more than enough.”
Direct means that you have the frame “I’m being sincere and I’m putting it all on the table. I’m showing my vulnerability. I’m expressing my intentions. I’m being serious and honest.”
Indirect means that you have the frame “I’m being playful and I’m being SUBTLE. I’m subcommunicating my intentions, and I’ll make you giggle all the way to the bedroom. I know it and you know it, and it doesn’t need to be said.”
Anyone who does “Indirect game” without the frame “I am more than enough” is not really gaming.
Daniel
