Did you leave her hanging?
By Lance MasonYou're at her door. It's late. It's getting later. She looks up
at you, leans in, and you kiss.
"Well, I guess I should go," she says.
"Yep. I had a great time," you say.
"Me too!" she says and smiles. Waiting. Standing there, as it's
getting later.
"Have a good night," you say, and walk away. And the first few
steps you are happy, until something hits you. It's like a
little goblin sitting on your shoulder, and he's been watching
the whole thing, keeping his goblin mouth shut, but now he just
has to say something.
And you know what that something is, that elusive obvious?
She wanted you to come inside. Genius.
You look back, and see her head inside, and for just a shimmer
of a second you see a spark of sadness on her face. She's sad
because she's going in alone.
I hope this sounds familiar, and I hope you realize this has
something to do with you.
You will have a lifetime of dating ahead of you, and you will
find yourself in all different kinds of dates and situations
that all lead to the same crossroads at the end of the date: at
some point you both have this page in the "Choose Your Own
Adventure" book, where she can head home, and you can head home.
You'll have all sorts of thoughts flitting through your mind
when this time comes.
"It's late. I have to work early. She has to work early."
"It was a great date. Don't screw it up now. Get out while the
getting is good."
"If she wanted more, she'd invite me in."
And of course, the real reason behind it all…
"I can't ask her in or ask to come in, because that would be
pushy, or creepy, or…. no, that's not it. I can't try to go
inside with her because then she might REJECT me."
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Maybe you are one of the few and the proud who invested in
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At your door. At her door. And all that's standing between her
and you getting to enjoy each other, guiltlessly, in fun like
little kids amazed at a great birthday present, is one move.
Just a few words.
There is a magic spell to overpower that fear of rejection that
stops you from going inside with her. There is a trick. And I'm
going to give it to you.
But first, I want you to think back to the movie "The 40-Year
Old Virgin." I caught it on cable last night, and had forgotten
what a great, sweet date movie it is. What's really sweet about
it is how it shows the woman in the relationship needs her man
to want her, and to be sexual with her, and when he doesn't,
well, she doesn't think it's nice, or chivalrous, or kind or
gentlemanly or anything like that. No, when she finally snaps
and can't figure out why he hasn't made a move on her, you
remember what she says?
"Are you going to kill me?"
She's so confused by his refusal to act like a man and act on
his desire for her that she can only assume he's a creepy
killer. Now, I'm not saying that your dates are left at the
doorstep wondering if they need to check the FBI site for your
photo, but you have to know that she is expecting you to make a
move. She's insulted if you don't. And I know this because…
I've done the same thing. There are a lot of clips I can pull
from my personal video collection of dates where I left her
there, or walked her out, and saw that moment of disappointment
on her face. And a lot of those girls just mysteriously
disappeared, great date or no. It took me years to figure out
that you are always better off making a move, always better off
going for the kiss, inviting her in, getting into her house, as
long as you do it smooth, with a pure heart, and the best intent
for fun and sexy time.
Want to know the secret to doing it smooth? Here it is. One line
that will change your life. But once I give it to you, I want
you to go out and USE it right away, and write back in to
asklance[at]pickup101[dot]com to tell me just how great it worked.
Next time you are with her at your door, or her door, and you
both know it's that "is it the end of the night?" moment, just
stop. Smile. Look in her eyes, and say, "I'm thirsty. Are you
thirsty? Let's go inside and get a glass of water. The water
here is just amazing." Smile some more, so she knows you are
just talking smack about the water, and lead her by the hand.
All it takes to be together is a strong move, made gently. Make
it easy and fun for her to be alone with you, and she will not
only want it, she will do it. And then neither of you has to end
a great night thinking, "too bad this couldn't keep going all
night."
THAT's what she really wants. So go make each other happy.
Your friend,
Lance Mason
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