As you’ve probably noticed, I’ve been taking a bit of a break,
first with my family in So. Cal, then my girlfriend in Mexico, and
finally with the PickUp101 family at our company party.
Then, just when I got back excited to get back in touch with you,
my office flooded! No kidding…
But now I’m back, with new information I’ve been working on, a new
commitment to YOU, and a new mission to making meeting women easier
then ever.
That’s right – I said easy.
I mean, REALLY easy – like sheer exhilaration, good times, and fun
with your buddies kind of easy.
I’m going to have a LOT of lessons for you on making things easy
with women, and I’ll explain more later on why I think making this
whole game a lot easier and a lot more fun is a lot simpler and a
lot MORE IMPORTANT then you might think.
For now let me start the year right by giving you one great tip
that will be sure to make developing your skills with women easier
then ever.
Here it is: Create a world in which women EXPECT you to flirt with
them every day, where they literally force you to banter with them
even when you’re feeling down, in a bad mood, or just not
particularly social.
It’s like having a hottie call you every so often for some fun
banter. If it happens on a regular basis, pretty soon you find
that you are ALWAYS ready for action when a new girl come along who
you’d like to meet.
No more hesitation, no more fear that you are not ‘In the right
mood’ to meet women or that you ‘need to prepare yourself’ before
talking to a beautiful women.
So how do you do it?
It’s actually very easy. Whenever you see a woman who is somehow
connected to your daily, weekly, or monthly routine, you MAKE SURE
you flirt with her.
Ya know, that nice married woman you work with every so often, the
teenager at your local coffee shop, or the older lady at the dry
cleaners.
The girls at your gym, favorite restaurants, parking garage, hotel
complex. You name it – If you see a girl once a month, she’s a
future banter partner waiting to be recruited,
Any woman will do, since most of them aren’t women you are going to
date – THESE women are you’re dating COACHES.
And you don’t have pay them a thing.
The easiest way to make this happen is to start bantering with her
during the very first interaction. That makes flirting later very
natural since you have set up the expectation.
It could look something like this:
You (at Starbucks): "Umm, I’ll take a large pepperoni with extra
cheese.
Girl at Starbucks: Umm… we don’t serve pizza
Me: Ya know what, this thing between us (gesturing back and forth)
just isn’t working out for me. You’re a really sweet girl and
everything – I just feel like I’m not really getting what I need
right now…
Girl: (Laughing)
You: Alright Sweetie, I’ll have a large coffee half-decaf. My
name is Lance by the way.
…
That last part is important. Call her Sweetie or, if you prefer,
Darlin’. Not her proper name.
Now every time you see her you can call her Sweetie and kick off the
next round of banter.
Easy huh?
Now, Bantering with a girl who you have interacted with before is a
bit tricker.
You’ve already made a first impression as a guy who is NOT an
incorrigible flirt, so if you just come out of the blue and start
bantering it might seem a bit creepy.
Here’s what I did with a girl at my local burger joint.
She’s was kinda cute but NOT the kind of girl I was really
interested in. I must have been preoccupied because I didn’t flirt
with her the first time I met her.
The burgers are damn tasty though, and I found myself going back
there over and over and NOT flirting with her.
Now that’s just plain bad karma.
So the next time I went and she was at the counter I said, "Hey,
I’ve been thinking about our relationship."
Now THAT got her attention.
Then I said "I feel like I’m not really getting what I need. I
mean the burgers are great and everything, but I’ve found myself
wanting a bit more.
Burger girl: Really?
Me: I’ve even found myself walking by the Burger King, wondering
what it might be like to go talk to some of the girls in there for
a while.
Burger girl: Burger King – No way!
Me: You know what I’d love? I want you to smile ear to ear when
you see me come in the door.
Burger girl: (Smiling)
Me: That’s right, just like that… Alright Sweetie I’ll take a
chicken sandwich with a side salad.
…
That’s it. Once you’ve called her Sweetie that one time you can do
it for life. The great thing about walking up to a girl and saying
‘Hey Sweetie’ is that you will automatically start flirting with
her – you just can’t help it.
Remember, this is NOT a way to get a girl to go home with you or to
meet you for a date. This is just a way to populate your world
with women who
EXPECT you to flirt with them.
They will keep you in a good mood at all times, and make sure you
are sharp when Mrs. Once-In-a-Lifetime walks by.
Think of them as you own army of banter instructors that have been
placed for your convenience in all the spots you go on a regular
basis.
And don’t forget to call them "Sweetie".
Now go meet some women,
Your friend,
Lance Mason
P.S. – I’m going to be giving you a lot of new tips for making
meeting women easy in 2008, but I can only do so much over these
emails. For those of you that want the best tips I have on making
the process of meeting and dating women, you need look no
further then my original program entitled "Everything you know
about women is Wrong". It covers everything you need to know from
how to meet women to how to keep them happy in a long term
relationship. Learn more at:
www.pickup101.com/EYK
P.P.S. – For those of you that want more ideas on how to banter,
flirt and otherwise captivate a woman with conversation then you
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Charismatic Conversations has everything you need to know and
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