Instant Daytime PickUp (As Easy As 1,2,3?)
Today I'm going to share a very simple technique that you can use to meet women during the day under just about any circumstance you can imagine. (It works at night to, but it's one of my favorite daytime approaches so that is how I usually describe it)
The BEST part of this technique is that it requires NO THOUGHT whatsoever and literally opens women up to a bit of flirting EVERY TIME…
And…
You guessed it…
With NO chance of rejection
The part about it requiring no thought is important because a lot of the times you see truly amazing women during the day you don't have very long to react. (Especially if you just turned the corner and almost bump into to a stone-cold hottie cat-walking the OTHER way.)
Don't be caught looking back at her with your hands in your pockets - stop that cootchie in her tracks and make your move!
Here's how:
STUPID SIMPLE STEP # 1: Gently tap her on the arm, turn to the side, and say, "Hey, what time is it?"
This does a few things.
First, it gets her out of her head and let's her prepare mentally to interact with another person. Remember, if she's alone then she is probably preoccupied with her own thoughts. She'll need just a split second to focus on you and relax a bit before you start flirting with her.
As you approach her and tap her arm she's wondering, "What does this guy want."
By just asking her for the time, you are putting her at ease for a moment so she can accept that you are just a normal guy and that nothing awkward is going to happen. By touching her gently as a part of your communication, you are also showing her that YOU are relaxed and confident, which set's you up for success in step 2.
Read on…
STUPID SIMPLE STEP # 2: As she looks at her watch and begins to answer, touch her arm again, turn to the side, put on a big shit-eating grin and say, "That's okay, I actually just came to flirt with you."
(This is a good time to point at your watch for dramatic effect as well if you'd like)
Be sure to smile BIG at this point - I recommend a big shit eating grin because - trust me on this - your smile is NOT as big as you think it is.
She is trying to decide if she should play along with this new game of yours, and it's your job to sell it - your face needs to be shining beacon of positive energy so she knows you have good intentions and it's okay for her to play along.
Besides, learning to widen that smile of yours is one of the best shortcuts to true physical confidence, so don't be afraid to ham it up a bit and enjoy it.
You'll know you have successfully completed step 2 when she smiles and giggles a bit.
QUICK TIP: The timing is critical here. If you're NOT getting a laugh here it's either because you are not smiling enough OR because your timing is off.
The key is to start talking just as she says, "Umm… It's about…" but BEFORE she finishes her sentence.
This might seem a bit rude, but with the right level of positive, playful energy you'll pull it off every time.
Here's why you have to cut her off mid sentence for best results.
If you start talking BEFORE she even begins to answer you'll seem overeager, and you'll be having a one way conversation since she hasn't even started to participate yet. On the other hand, if you wait for her to finish completely she could be off before you finish your sentence.
I think we can all agree there is nothing sexy about that.
In any case cutting her off is always okay when you are flirting, and ANYTHING is okay with that big SMILE on your face right?
Hint: If you DON'T feel like anything is okay while you are doing it then that is proof that you are not smiling enough.
STUPID SIMPLE STEP # 3: Now that she knows that you are flirting, you need to show her that you are good at it and make sure she enjoys it.
At this point you can look at her suspiciously, as if you are sizing her up a bit, and follow it up with "You're a good flirt right?".
If she claims to be a good flirt then you can hire her as your dating consultant. If she's not so good, then you can pull a Donald Trump with the line "Oh my God, you are SOOO fired as my dating consultant." There's actually tons of fun options here, and a suggested strategy for all of this, but for now just have fun with this and you'll be fine.
And that's it! Your step-by-step plan for flirting with the hotties.
It may sound overly simple, but if you have taken our Art of Rapport program then you know how easy and how powerful it is.
And the best part is you can use it right away.
Practice with a friend or in front of a mirror a few times and you should be ready for the big time.
By the way, if you're wondering about getting your vibe on, building a connection, and heading out on date then keep and eye on your inbox.
Now go meet some women,
