PickUp 101

How Do I Stop a Moving Hottie?

There she is. She's so cute. She's so
stylish. Got that certain sum-sumthin' in her
walk. Yeah, look at her walk…

Walk right on by.

Well, c'mon, Lance. I wasn't supposed to
flirt with her, right? I mean, she's walking!

She's walking past me. She's walking ahead of
me. She's talking on the phone. Whatever.

You can't stop a moving girl and flirt with
her, right? You can't get her to stop just to
talk with you, banter with you, connect with
you, and get her hot and bothered to go on a
date with you, right?

RIGHT?

I think you know my answer.

Of COURSE you can stop a moving hottie! This
is a free world. We're not under martial law.
You can do whatever you want to, so long as
nobody gets hurt.

Guy see girl. Girl be moving. Guy want stop
girl.

Guy stop girl.

Yes, it is that caveman simple. But only once
you know the approach that gets her stopped,
gets her interested, and gets her there with
you.

You've heard of Newton's 1st Law. A body in
motion tends to stay in motion.

What Newton didn't say was that's even more
true when the body in question is a smokin'
HOT body!

But there's more to this law. I know. I
Googled it to be sure.

A body in motion tends to stay in motion
unless acted upon by an unbalanced force.

Guess what? You, mi compadre, are the
"unbalanced force."

Isn't that a great frickin' phrase? Just
think that to yourself the next time you are
just having a blast and someone asks why
you're having so much fun.

"I'm just an unbalanced force of nature,
darlin'!"

OK, back to our physics lesson.

So you now know you can stop her. But how?

When you see a girl that attracts you, make
meeting her the the priority of your day.
Don’t worry about how you are going to stop
her, what your body language is like, or any
details like that.

Don’t be thrown by any excuses (she’s on a
cell phone, wearing an iPod, walking away
down the street). Just make this real —
stopping and talking to you for 30 seconds is
the most important thing in her day.

You giving her a chance to meet a confident,
sexy man is the most important thing in her
day. And in yours.

All across the universe, women respond to
decisiveness and confidence
more than anything else — more than money,
looks, fame, or nice cars.

(Yes, the whole universe. Don't believe me?
Go watch some old Star Trek's and watch how
Captain Kirk works his mojo on some green
alien hotties. No one can resist his hunky
body language, no matter what planet they're
from!)

Ol J.T. Kirk knew the blood and guts of
Physical Confidence, and you can learn to use
your body to shout this like a fat woman
yelling "Help!" in a house fire:
http://pickup101.com/physicalconfidence

If you move like a man on a mission, she will
recognize the powerful attractive traits and
respond.

Here's what happens when a student gets it
right.

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Sam wanted to see if there was some
circumstance where he simply COULDN'T meet a
girl, so he kept his eyes open while driving
through town, hoping to catch a cutie in her
car. A lovely girl in a BMW merged in front
of him and turned left. He immediately
snapped into "Starsky and Hutch" mode and
took off after her, away from his
destination.

She went two more streets, then stopped at
the next red. He hit the hazard lights,
pulled the e-brake, jumped out of his ride
and ran up to her window. He motioned for her
to roll it down, and when she did, he said,

"Excuse me, I just had to tell you that you
are the prettiest girl I’ve seen all day, and
there’s a law that says I have to tell you
that."

She smiled, and he continued,

"Really, I have no choice. It's a federal
law."

She introduced herself.  He smiled back, and
they kept talking and flirting, right there
in the street, as the red light turned green.

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Now comes your turn.

Here's your step-by-step how-to for stopping
and dating girls on the move.

Get your pencils out. Ready?

If you’re unsure how to stop her, just
imagine the following. If your car was on
fire, and you needed to stop someone to get
help, how would you do it?

Your BODY knows this already. There's no
trick to it. Just follow those instincts and
experience.

You will have all sorts of questions and
doubts and conditions running through your
mind, and all sorts of reasons not to do it.

My personal favorite is "I don’t have the
time right now." So make it simple for
yourself. You are taking 30 seconds out of
your day to see if this cutie is a good fit
for you, no more, no less. You can always
afford 30 seconds, right?

And you never know when the best
opportunities are going to pass by, so you
need to be ready all the time.

If you detect a little more agita and fear
rising up in your gullet than you can handle,
try this little trick to get it done.

Let her move away from you. Wait just a
second. If it’s a store, let her go. If it’s
a street, let her keep walking.

Wait just long enough that you think you may
have lost her, and then chase her down.

Get it in your head that you are on a mission
to find and meet this girl. Make her your
Girl of the Day, the one you just have to
meet no matter what the situation.

This is the kind of sh*t superheros do.
That's you. You should hear crazy theme music
pumping as you pursue, knowing that no Dr.
Doom, Lex Luthor or Loch Ness Monster can
stop you.

The more you have to pursue, the more real it
will feel when you finally catch up to her,
and the more sincere and confident you will
be when you catch up to her and say,

"I know this is a bit random, but I had to
meet you."

Now get out there, chase 'er down, and make
that girl smile. You may just make yourself
smile in the process.