“If you can run a losing race without blaming your loss
on someone else, you have bright prospects of success
down the road in life.”
– Napolean Hill
There Must Be Somebody To Blame
Ever heard anyone say this? Most people actually prefer a good excuse over a good opportunity.
And many of those people blame a lot of other people for the things they don’t like about their personal situation, and the events in their life.
Broke? They come from a poor family. The schools only teach how to be a worker bee. Rich people don’t want others to be rich.
Fat? It’s mom’s fault for having them clean their plate as a kid. Or it’s McDonalds that is doing it to them.
Can’t meet women? Not enough money. Don’t have the right car. I’m just not like that. She’s with friends. She has a boyfriend.
If you’re reading this, you’ve heard someone spout out one of these excuses. Maybe even heard one in your own head once or twice.
Blaming Others Has No Positive Benefit
Here’s a little secret that is common to all successful people in all walks of life… blaming and making excuses doesn’t have any power to make your life better. Frankly it’s just a
waste of your time and energy to do so.
What’s more important to understand is that when you do this, you give up control over your own life. You give your power away to whomever or whatever you blame.
So if you’re going to play the blame game, it should be yourself, because at least that gives you the power to change things. It’s better not to blame at all, and instead take responsibility for what happens in your life.
Responsibility = Control
This is so simple, yet it eludes 95% of all humans. If you want control over what happens in your life, take responsibility for the outcomes you get.
If you want to be successful with women, then accept that how they respond to you is your responsibility. You CAN CHANGE how they respond by learning skills that work from people with experience, regular practice of the skills, and the feedback you get every time you talk to women.
Craig
