Do You Look Her in the Eye?
I don't remember what I said to any of my girlfriends the first time I met them.
But I remember the LOOK from each of them when we first made eye contact. And I remember the confidence I projected when I looked at them.
Ask 100 women what they like most in a man, and at least 99 will give you the same annoying, vague answer.
"I like confidence."
Well, that's great if you already have confidence, right? I mean, if you were born
sexy with Playmates and Hooters girls as your babysitters (who you then seduced at age 11), you've got no worries. You KNOW women see you as a gift from above.
But what if your confidence is a little tattered, battered and worn? What if you've never really gotten the great girls you always wanted? What if a bad breakup or divorce left you feeling like roadkill with your ego splattered all over the highway?
What if you just don't feel confident? Especially when you see that woman that just takes your breath away?
(you can get started NOW on getting that confidence with our Art of Attraction Workshop.
I'm gonna let you in on a little secret.
Confidence is not some invisible force that
covers you like a cape. Women LOOK to see if
you are confident. Their eyes tell them
everything they need to know about you before
you ever, ever, ever open your mouth.
Confidence is something you SHOW her.
And here's the great part: You can make HER
believe you are confident if you just know
how it looks.
There's one body part that tells people more
about you than anything else, and no, I don't
mean your big Tommy Lee. And you know this,
because you use this in business all the
time.
The eyes.
Think about it. When you buy a car, how do
you decide whether or not you trust the
salesman? Do you listen to his wrap about
financing and undercoating? Do you get
dazzled by the specs and HP under the hood
and the drive-train warranty?
No. You look in his EYES and check your gut
to find out yes or no, sure as can be, if you
trust this guy.
Imagine a poker game. Why do you think so
many pros wear shades and hoodies? The eyes
tell us all just what another person is
thinking and feeling. If you can see their
eyes, you can see who they really are, and
what they really want.
From now on, I want you to think of yourself
as the car salesman. You know you've got the
BEST frickin' product out there. You're an
Aston Martin, you're a Bentley, you're a
godd*mn Ferrari Testarossa. And the only
problem you have is looking in the eyes of
potential buyers and picturing them RIDING to
see if they are a good fit.
You feel me?
Stop thinking about yourself. Stop thinking
about what you are going to say. She isn't
really listening anyways, especially if you
aren't looking in her eyes.
Next time you pass a pretty girl, I want you
to follow these simple steps.
1) Keep your eyes on her eyes as you walk
past her. Do not scan her. Do not check her
out. Focus on her eyes and look to see what
she does.
2) As you are looking in her eyes, picture
her riding. You know what I mean. It's a
little creative visualization. See what you
want the same way a golfer sees his par-3 tee
shot over water simply hit the green and spin
back to the hole. Don't picture the steps to
get there, just the result.
3) Now watch to see if she makes eye contact
back. She may not. Lots of women are shy,
especially in public. Don't be dejected if
she doesn't look up right away. But keep
looking. All it takes is a flicker. Like my
girlfriend said to me last night, "I assume
all guys look at all girls, so it's no big
deal. But if he looks back, and then does
something…"
4) Doing something. If you get a look back,
this is your cue. You've already seen where
you want her to be. You have COMMUNICATED to
her with your eyes everything you would want
to say. And the great thing about making eye
contact first is that when you say your first
words, you are NO LONGER STRANGERS.
Showing real eye confidence and locking eyes
with a woman is a first meeting. That's your
introduction just as sure as if you were put
together by friends.
Listen, man. I know you relax and do well
with women when you've met through mutual
friends, right? Oddly enough, that's every
woman's dream as well. No girl will tell you
she really prefers to meet a total stranger
in a bar or on the street.
Women need to feel like they know you a
little bit BEFORE you talk to them. That's
why they date friends of friends. That's why
they hook up with famous guys. Anyone they
feel they already know has a HUGE advantage.
I want you to TAKE that advantage now. The
power is in your eyes. The confidence is in
you.
You are risking nothing. Just a look. No
cost, no potential for rejection. Hell, you
can do this all day every day and you get the
side benefit of looking at pretty girls.
It will feel weird when you start looking
women in the eye. I went through it myself.
It renders us a little vulnerable in ways we
can't quite explain. You're not saying
anything, but you are telling her everything.
And you both KNOW what is going on even if no
one else does.
But I'll tell you, not only is this the most
EFFECTIVE way to overcome approach anxiety
and start approaching the women you really
want, it is the ONLY way you will ever go
from a a dead start to a passionate
relationship.
If you can't look her in the eye with
confidence, you don't ever get to see what's
best in her. And I don't mean just her soul.
I mean everything under wraps on that
beautiful body that every other dude is
checking out on the sly.
You want to be the man who gets to enjoy the
naked splendor of her? Be different. Be a
man. Look her in the eye, and you'll get to
see it all.
Wishing you peace, joy and classic women,
Sean
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just how to use your body to attract her.
Wouldn't it be nice to KNOW what to do
every time?
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One Response to “Do You Look Her in the Eye?”
I saw her in person only once but her image has haunted me for almost 5 years. She is the most beauiful creature alive her name is Beau-Latasha. she smiled at me in an airport only once but I remmeber her forever.
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