Today I’m going to share a dirty little
secret that all attractive men know, but few
will admit to.
No one starts out totally comfortable talking
to strangers. But in order to become an
attractive men and get the women you want,
it’s something you have to get used to.
Now there are a lot more Secrets of the
Naturals for you to know, and you can learn
all of them with Surefire Attraction Secrets:
http://pickup101.com/surefireattractionsecrets,
but for now, let’s focus on this first one.
After all, you need the fundamentals before
you get the advanced skills.
So you’re still challenged by the idea of
talking to perfect strangers, and there’s no
easy way to get past it without adding more
anxiety, right?
Here’s a low-risk way to get yourself
comfortable and get past the idea that
strangers are to be feared FOREVER.
** Do this, and you will never have a problem
with approach anxiety again. **
This workout routine can work for ANYONE
who’s spending more time thinking than doing.
You won’t turn into a magic pickup guru
overnight like others may promise. But you
will get happier and more social and more
comfortable with girls than you could have
ever imagined in 30 days. That’s all.
Not years. 30 days.
Ready?
Step 1.
You are not to go to any bars or clubs for
the next month. At all. You may go to pubs
with your friends, but no "sarging." No bars.
Nothing.
What you will do is make changes daily.
Here’s how.
Step 2.
For the next month, you will take a
30-minute walk every day. Pick a neighborhood
that’s easy to get to from home or work, and
go there at about the same time every day.
Ideally pick a place you can walk right after
work. It can be a street with shops, or a
park. But it must be a place where people are
about.
When you are on your walk, you nod to
yourself and keep repeating under your breath
"I’m going to look silly but i’m going to
have fun." Just do it.
Now comes the crucial part. When you walk
past a woman, ANY woman, smile, look up at
her and say "Hello." That’s it. Just greet
her. She does not have to say anything back.
These are the simple steps to get you out of
your head.
You have that goal. Now the next thing to
look for is a woman, any woman, who is not
walking. Do the same thing. Walk up and say
"Hello." Wait until she says "Hello" back,
then when she does, introduce yourself.
She will then tell you her name, and then you
immediately tell her how you take a walk
every day and have conversations with
friendly-looking people because you’re quite
shy, and are learning how to just enjoy small
talk and getting to know people.
Do NOT run any routines or anything else.
Just have a conversation about how you have
trouble having conversations. I want you to
be totally honest and sincere. And if she
joins the conversation, that’s great. Keep
talking. If she has something to do that
prevents her from talking, that’s fine as
well. Wish her a good day and move on.
To review, here is your homework for the next
month.
1) 30-minute walk, rain or shine, EVERY DAY.
2) Walk in a place where there are people about
3) When walking, nod your head a little and
repeat to yourself "I may look silly but I’m
going to have fun talking to people."
4) When walking past people, smile and say
"Hello" to one person. It does NOT matter if
they say Hello back or even look up.
5) The first woman you see on your walk, stop
and greet her with a smile and "Hello." Then
introduce yourself politely and ask her name.
When she tells you her name, tell her you
like to walk every day and have conversations
with friendly-looking people because you are
quite shy, and learning how to be social and
enjoy small talk.
6) Once you say that, you are free to go. You
do not need to say anything else. But you are
also free to stay and talk.
7) No matter what else happens, make sure you
walk for the full 30 minutes.
Get home and keep a checklist of the
things you did.
One check for walking for 30
minutes.
One check for everyone you greeted
with a hello.
One check for every woman you
stopped and chatted with.
9) When you see you have three checks,
celebrate. Go to your favorite pub and watch
the game with your buds. Order your favorite
food. Give yourself a high-five. Whatever.
But make sure you celebrate doing it.
Give me 30 days of this, and you will have a
better life. I give you my word.
