Banter Until She's Attracted, Then Vibe!
Lance,
What do you talk about after introductions and how long do you continue banter etc?
Luis, Milwaukee WI
"What do you talk about…" Is actually the wrong question.
I picked it out of the mailbag because it's all too common that men ask me the exact same thing.
The reason I say it's the wrong question is, it doesn't matter what you say, or if you say anything at all, if you are being what I like to call a COOL GUY. This is what we teach you how to do in the Art of Attraction workshop
Remember, words are only about 15% of your total communication.
You can have the world's best pickup routines, but if your body language sucks, you are WASTING your time.
On the other hand, a man who is really good with women can attract them without even speaking the same language.
Listen, I know that this isn't the answer you wanted to hear, but it's important.
And if you have the 85% of non-verbal communication down, frankly you can say any damn thing you want.
And you should LEAD the conversation. That's you being a confident guy and pulling everyone else into your world.
That's WAY more attractive to a woman than any words you can say.
As for Banter… Only do it until you get attraction.
Most guys learn banter and do it way too long. If a woman is attracted to you and you don't RECOGNIZE it, and you keep going with banter, you'll piss her off.
This is a BAD THING.
Remember, attraction can happen in an INSTANT.
You need to PAY ATTENTION to the woman, and get out of your own head about "what should I say".
Test for attraction. If it's not there in less than 3 minutes… move on.
I just saved you hours of wasted time.
Banter till she's attracted, then just VIBE…
You'll amaze yourself.
Lance
3 Responses to “Banter Until She's Attracted, Then Vibe!”
"I just saved you hours of wasted time."
Haha.
By BG
You can't walk up to a girl and say "Hi", and then say nothing at all. No matter how confident and cool you are, if you don't say anything, and you just stand their saying nothing, she'll know you're a freak. Obviously what you say matters, because we can see it in your hidden camera video. You give the girl a "cold reading", you tell her stuff about herself and she's totally blown away. You can't blow her away if you don't say something. Besides that, we all know how amazingly attracted girls are to funny guys, and you can't tell jokes or make wise cracks if you don't talk.
By Rob C